I think you made an excellent point about women pretty much universally hating pick up artists and guys who try to learn "game".
The fact that women are so opposed to the idea is a bit of an oxymoron. If advice from someone like Andrew Tate didn't work, why would they even bother spending energy saying how much they dislike his advice. As a result, observing a women's actions and not necessarily what she says is always the best advice when it comes to dating women.
I think the advice of “ just be yourself” is given because the alternative would be to change for the benefit of others…. To be liked by others. That’s betraying yourself.
There is always someone who resonates with you. So while you take the time to love yourself, someone -if you are looking - will eventually find you.
The problem with all of us if that we lack the most venerable trait a human could have…. And that is Patience.
In general, women are hardwired instinctively toward strong men but that comes with instinctive fear of men's strength. Some women try to deflate men so they can feel in control based on fear. However, a man who is sure of himself having built in self esteem and confidence would never be brought down to a level of violence towards a woman. He wouldn't be with her in the first place.
A woman's instinct isn't to deflate a man -- especially if he's competent. The baseless debasing occurs because social media tells women that's what they're supposed to do under the guise of empowerment.
I really resonate with this perspective! It’s so true that focusing on becoming the best version of ourselves, rather than pretending to be someone we’re not, can make a huge difference in our relationships. Self-awareness and genuine improvement not only help us connect better with others but also lead to more fulfilling interactions overall. It’s all about growth and authenticity!
Love this post. The hardest part of exhibiting outcome independence and not pandering to immediate validation from women is the lack of validation. The minute you look like you don't care, the shit tests start.
Prepare to get rejected, feel lonely and be the arsehole for a long time before any woman worth it will show you that she's hot for that kind of man.
I think you made an excellent point about women pretty much universally hating pick up artists and guys who try to learn "game".
The fact that women are so opposed to the idea is a bit of an oxymoron. If advice from someone like Andrew Tate didn't work, why would they even bother spending energy saying how much they dislike his advice. As a result, observing a women's actions and not necessarily what she says is always the best advice when it comes to dating women.
I think the advice of “ just be yourself” is given because the alternative would be to change for the benefit of others…. To be liked by others. That’s betraying yourself.
There is always someone who resonates with you. So while you take the time to love yourself, someone -if you are looking - will eventually find you.
The problem with all of us if that we lack the most venerable trait a human could have…. And that is Patience.
Just saying.
In general, women are hardwired instinctively toward strong men but that comes with instinctive fear of men's strength. Some women try to deflate men so they can feel in control based on fear. However, a man who is sure of himself having built in self esteem and confidence would never be brought down to a level of violence towards a woman. He wouldn't be with her in the first place.
A woman's instinct isn't to deflate a man -- especially if he's competent. The baseless debasing occurs because social media tells women that's what they're supposed to do under the guise of empowerment.
I really resonate with this perspective! It’s so true that focusing on becoming the best version of ourselves, rather than pretending to be someone we’re not, can make a huge difference in our relationships. Self-awareness and genuine improvement not only help us connect better with others but also lead to more fulfilling interactions overall. It’s all about growth and authenticity!
Love this post. The hardest part of exhibiting outcome independence and not pandering to immediate validation from women is the lack of validation. The minute you look like you don't care, the shit tests start.
Prepare to get rejected, feel lonely and be the arsehole for a long time before any woman worth it will show you that she's hot for that kind of man.