Couple friends where I put the effort in. I try to check in just to let them know I’m thinking of them these few I don’t need reciprocation, if I don’t check in I worry they might not be well. It’s more selfishly for me.
Usually tho with most people & dates I match energy!! It’s served me pretty good, asking questions like u did is also important. I have no problem someone telling me they don’t really wanna hang or like my company. I am getting better at being blunt myself, as ghosting is what is rude, it is the confrontation imo.
Good read.
Couple friends where I put the effort in. I try to check in just to let them know I’m thinking of them these few I don’t need reciprocation, if I don’t check in I worry they might not be well. It’s more selfishly for me.
Usually tho with most people & dates I match energy!! It’s served me pretty good, asking questions like u did is also important. I have no problem someone telling me they don’t really wanna hang or like my company. I am getting better at being blunt myself, as ghosting is what is rude, it is the confrontation imo.