Thanks for posting the case study; takes balls to post one where the nature of the world worked against you. Also, I appreciate the ego-free breakdown of the scenario; that takes reason. 100% agree with you. It would be better to do anything to take it to a draw or mutual loss (even if imbalanced) in front of your girl versus lose a friendly match where your opponent gets up relatively unscathed.
I wholeheartedly agree, I used to be a state qualifying wrestler in highschool and can remember the attention surge I received when I went from losing every match freshman year to getting gud and going to states senior. There is very much something primal about men who can fight that women gravitate too. I also have a little bit of cauliflower ear on one side from being hit and women have jokingly asked if I'm a fighter on dates.
On the flip side. Any man that has an aversion to violence will have their women's pussy under lock and key away from them. I don't care what any female says but that's the truth. There's a saying a buddy of mine told me. Surest way to keep a woman horny and loyal to you is to hurt or kill someone in front of her. I'm not advocating the latter but it's definitely a major aphrodisiac for a woman. A woman wants to know you can handle yourself and take care of business. Men aren't supposed to be tooth-less creatures.
I wasn't there, I've never been in your exact circumstance, but I think it's a frame issue.
Asking a girl to video you fighting is setting up a frame (literally) where the fight is important, it's a mating display, and it's the yardstick by which you should be measured. You could probably offset that by attitude, not trying too hard, being funny, amused mastery etc. but maybe you didn't do that.
But who cares- meaning is retrospective, whatever you convince her to believe today will bleed back and color the past. You presumably have her phone number because she had your video, you didn't have that before, now you do, you're one step ahead.
Late to the party here, but a good little ditty. I appreciate your ego-death outlook.
I've had my ass handed to me a couple of times in stand-up fights. It wasn't so bad though, I learned that I can stand and fight without running or crying or being a bitch. I can take punches without losing my cool.
I do carry a gun everywhere I go, I know how to use it too....shot competitively for a number of years. If you aren't too talented at a physical fight, that's one way to give yourself an edge. Either way, try to be dangerous.
Sorry. Bullshit terms. It means you take a realistic view of your capabilities and your outlook. Your ego doesn't get in the way of your self-eval. It's refreshing
This isn’t always true. I’m dating the hottest girl of my life and she’s seen me get my ass handed to me by my guy friend who’s good at jiu jitsu at my house on multiple occasions. Sex is better than ever.
No wonder the ancient Greeks banned women from attending their games.
I didn't know that. It makes sense, though.
Thanks for posting the case study; takes balls to post one where the nature of the world worked against you. Also, I appreciate the ego-free breakdown of the scenario; that takes reason. 100% agree with you. It would be better to do anything to take it to a draw or mutual loss (even if imbalanced) in front of your girl versus lose a friendly match where your opponent gets up relatively unscathed.
I wholeheartedly agree, I used to be a state qualifying wrestler in highschool and can remember the attention surge I received when I went from losing every match freshman year to getting gud and going to states senior. There is very much something primal about men who can fight that women gravitate too. I also have a little bit of cauliflower ear on one side from being hit and women have jokingly asked if I'm a fighter on dates.
For sure.
I've privately received much discontent with this essay, but once you experience what I discussed you can't unsee it.
Also, if you're ever in Knoxville or Nashville hit me up. We'll get a good roll in, brother.
Great reminder of the lizard brain nature in all humans
On the flip side. Any man that has an aversion to violence will have their women's pussy under lock and key away from them. I don't care what any female says but that's the truth. There's a saying a buddy of mine told me. Surest way to keep a woman horny and loyal to you is to hurt or kill someone in front of her. I'm not advocating the latter but it's definitely a major aphrodisiac for a woman. A woman wants to know you can handle yourself and take care of business. Men aren't supposed to be tooth-less creatures.
Your shit is fake af
There's images and a video
Reminds me of when a popular guy I knew in highschool lost a fight to the “small emo kid” and suddenly he had no bitches the next 3 months.
I wasn't there, I've never been in your exact circumstance, but I think it's a frame issue.
Asking a girl to video you fighting is setting up a frame (literally) where the fight is important, it's a mating display, and it's the yardstick by which you should be measured. You could probably offset that by attitude, not trying too hard, being funny, amused mastery etc. but maybe you didn't do that.
But who cares- meaning is retrospective, whatever you convince her to believe today will bleed back and color the past. You presumably have her phone number because she had your video, you didn't have that before, now you do, you're one step ahead.
Yeah - this actually occured 51 weeks ago today
Late to the party here, but a good little ditty. I appreciate your ego-death outlook.
I've had my ass handed to me a couple of times in stand-up fights. It wasn't so bad though, I learned that I can stand and fight without running or crying or being a bitch. I can take punches without losing my cool.
I do carry a gun everywhere I go, I know how to use it too....shot competitively for a number of years. If you aren't too talented at a physical fight, that's one way to give yourself an edge. Either way, try to be dangerous.
Ego-death outlook?
Sorry. Bullshit terms. It means you take a realistic view of your capabilities and your outlook. Your ego doesn't get in the way of your self-eval. It's refreshing
Eish but how do you run in front of your girl? Do you leave her behind or tell her to run with you?
Explain why
Oh and why is fighting something I should ever need to do?
I think you're on an absurd path to even consider something like fighting in 2024.
Your shit is fake af
Brave unconcerned mocking violent-Thus wisdom wants us. She is a woman and loves only a warrior. Nietzche quote
This isn’t always true. I’m dating the hottest girl of my life and she’s seen me get my ass handed to me by my guy friend who’s good at jiu jitsu at my house on multiple occasions. Sex is better than ever.