What to Do After Getting A Girl's Number: A Player's Guide

Always say less than necessary

Less is always more. This maxim nearly pertains to all aspects of life, but especially women. All men can recall the countless times where they finally worked up the courage to talk to their crush, get her number, and have a fantastic conversation via text. She responded instantly to your messages and seemed particularly interested in you. The texting continues, and suddenly, her responses are prolonged, shorter, and much more dry. Sometimes you even get ghosted. This happens to all men, and most are oblivious as to why. Here’s the deal: texting can’t build attraction. If a girl has given you her number, after conversing in person or online, you can ask her out on a date. While there are absolutely women who give out their numbers to men they have no intention of dating, the principle still stands: enough attraction wasn’t created. Or she perhaps was never attracted from the start. Regardless, no amount of texting can compensate for this. Society has conditioned men to naively maintain the idea that rapport and comfort must be established before asking a girl out. Unfortunately, all they end up doing is talking themselves out of a date.

Texting Is Primarily for logistics 

Once a woman gives you her number, always assume she wants to go out with you.