How to Seduce Anyone
Presence is a superpower
Everyone Wants to Feel Important
If you long for the ability to successfully seduce women, you have to learn how to properly listen. Listening, despite it being a mindless activity performed without thought, is unequivocally and emphatically the most powerful seduction technique that exists. It is a tool that, when done correctly, has the ability to make women obsessed with you. If you are on a date with a romantic interest, and you demonstrate that you are actually listening to them, they will be substantially more attracted to you. Everyone wants to feel significant and important, and when you truly listen to someone, they feel like what they say matters, and they will love you for it.
Have you ever told someone a story or accomplishment, only to have them respond with information about themselves as it pertains to what you said? Imagine training incredibly hard everyday for six months to run a marathon. The day finally comes, and you accomplish your goal. You excitedly inform a friend, only to have them begin speaking about all of the marathons they’ve run, and barely (if at all) acknowledge your achievement. Everyone has been subjected to occurrences like this, and it is incredibly frustrating. Behaving like this in conversation indirectly conveys that you are not interested in what the other person has to share, which makes them feel unimportant. People love talking about themselves, so naturally people are inwardly oriented (focused on themselves); however, if you want people to like you, you must be outwardly oriented, that is, focused on the person speaking.
Be Present
The ability to listen effectively is a superpower. Luckily, it’s not some mythical quality that you are born with, but, rather, a skill that can be developed. Here’s the deal: you can’t fake being a great listener. People can instinctively determine if you are truly listening to them, as we evolved to have a remarkable understanding of non verbal communication due to our ancestors only being able to communicate non verbally hundreds of thousands of years ago.
In order to become an effective listener, you must practice presence, and luckily, it is a skill that can be refined on anyone.