How to Know If a Chick is Ready to Come Back to Your Place
An r/seduction user seeks advice on getting girls back to his place.
I know if you ask too early on in dating, she'll feel alienated. However, what if she really was ready for you to ask her back to your place after say a second date, but you felt it was too early and she'd be offended? How can you tell if a girl wants you to ask her back to your place?
Before we begin, let's discuss the elephant in the room: OP is a retarded self sabotaging coward. He can sense when a woman wants to go back to his place, but is concerned about offending her? After discerning that’s what she wants? It sounds like he’s more interested in finding out how to grow a bigger pair of balls.
Making out in public.
In my experience, if you publicly make out with your date, she’s willing to go back to your place – every woman I’ve done so with has either agreed to come over or indirectly conveyed wanting to. Obviously, making out with a random chick at a bar or nightclub is entirely different, and not a domain I have enough experience with to provide sufficient advice for, but you ultimately have nothing to lose by asking a woman who won’t remember you the following morning if she wants to go watch a movie at your place.
She repeatedly asks where you live.
Of course, residency is a common first date topic; if she asks where you live early on, before anything sexual has happened, or follows a series of logical questions, she’s probably just making conversation. However, if she asks you multiple times, or after you’ve been making out, she wants you to blow her back out.
Just the other day, I cold-approached an engaged woman in the gym. She informed me of her entanglement, and I told her to take care and resumed my workout. Not 30 minutes later, she approached me; called me very handsome not once but twice; said she was flattered that I found her attractive, and again mentioned that she was engaged. Recognizing the peculiarity of the situation, I concluded that she wanted to get pounded and