JackedGuy: Men's Dating, Fitness, and Self Improvement

JackedGuy: Men's Dating, Fitness, and Self Improvement

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Eliminate Expectations

Eliminate Expectations

An r/seduction user regrets not approaching a woman sending him choosing signals.

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An r/seduction user describes a common problem men have with women.

I feel really bad about not going up and talking to her, she was giving me a pretty clear signal that she was interested in me approaching her but I did what I usually do, which is got nervous and avoided the situation all together.

It’s hard not to beat myself up when these things happen. I just don’t know what to say and I have such low-self esteem that I feel like it would be hard for me to carry the conversation. I feel like I missed out on a really good opportunity and it sucks.

Can anyone relate to this?

This very short post has much to unpack.

  1. I feel really bad about not going up and talking to her, she was giving me a pretty clear signal that she was interested in me approaching her but I did what I usually do, which is got nervous and avoided the situation all together.

Rejection is clearly better than regret. All he had to do was

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